For those of you who’ve ever experienced challenges, barriers or unpleasant experiences related to friendships, this is the place for…

To all the Karen’s, Becky’s, and Amy’s Out There….This is for You! Dear Karen et al., I know you’re accustomed…

Alright Mommies, I have a confession….now judge me all you want, but I tend to keep things a little too…

As a firm believer in the saying, “You gotta believe the messenger before you can believe the message” I’ll go…

If you’re a Mommi who loves to read or download and listen on the go (we're not here to judge)...

For the majority of my life, I was of the mindset that it was okay to bypass all the romantic…

Or so I thought…Let me take you back to the moment in time where absolutely nothing changed my life forever….

Yeah, that’s right I said it and I meant it. I don’t care what any of y’all have to say,...

Okay, so to be fair, maybe comparing my seven-year marriage to slavery isn’t the best analogy….I’d say it was more…

I literally laughed out loud and thought, this is about as true as everyone claiming to be “Living Their Best Life” and we all know just how true that is. After listening to the song again I’ll be the first to admit, while I was extremely entertained, I was left utterly confused. Are they serious? Are they making a mockery out of generational infidelity which runs rampant in the Black community? Nobody is actually taking this song serious right? After scrolling through the internet, I landed on the one comment that seemed to sum it all up for me, “This is a whole Jussie Smollett ass lie!” I died! This person is absolutely right, the idea sounds good and it’s something we really want to believe but of course we all know better! So, as we sit back and watch some of the most ignominious of men across the nation take this blasted pledge of “attempted fidelity,” I’m sure many women, like myself, are left bewildered by this entire movement. 

When you hear the term “Daddy Issues” do you automatically think of the cliche poor misguided girl who’s fumbling through…

Now ladies, I’m sure we’ve all experienced disappointment and regret a time or two over the course of our lives…

Initially, my plan was to start this open letter by declaring that you are the abortion your mothers should have had, but I opted not to go that route. Instead, I’ll come from a space of compassion and use your ignorance as a teachable moment for us all.

What do you do when your mind is consumed by one thing and one thing only? No matter how hard you try to stop thinking about it, you just can’t seem to push the thoughts out of your head. They slide in constantly throughout the day; while you’re in the shower, driving to work, riding the elevator, relaxing in the jacuzzi, hell even at church as you pray for forgiveness. When you aren’t spending countless hours allowing it to permeate your mind, you’re talking about it with your friends and God knows momma warned you never to do that.

 Mommi, Pamela P.  Mommi, Pamela P. Exactly three months to the day I gave birth, I hightailed my ass back…

Almost three months to the day I gave birth, I was right back at work. I remember walking into the...

The day I became a mom is arguably one of the most unorthodox days of my life. For starters, it…

It’s 2:00 am, I’m 7 months pregnant and I hear his phone go off. He slowly gets up, checks to see if I’m asleep and creeps carefully out of our bed. He goes into the bathroom and all I hear is: Hey is everything ok? Why are you calling me so late? Okay, I’ll make time to come see you. I don’t know when, but I’ll make sure its soon. I love you too.

Needless to say, I had a real WTF moment when my period went missing (while on birth control, might I add) in May of 2012. I waited until the following month to actually take a home pregnancy test and when the results appeared, my entire life flashed before my eyes.

Now as a post-college graduate who had to work her ass off to get into college (and grad school), I have a few things I need to get off my chest about all of this, but I can almost guarantee it’s not what you’re thinking…