Dear Vanessa, Natalia, Bianka and Capri, The world lost a legend. A man that many revere as one of the…

Ah, the married life. It’s a wonderful adventure isn’t it? When I was younger I pictured myself meeting the man…

 DATING?  What does that even mean in 2019?                        …

For the majority of my life, I was of the mindset that it was okay to bypass all the romantic…

Yes, I said it! And this is not one of those blogs that makes a sharp left turn and implies…

As time went on, however, daily sex routines turned into once in a while. Date nights were a thing that happened on occasion and minor disagreements turned into full blown arguments. The signs were there but often times we are blinded by the lust and the “love” that we miss them or sweep them under the rug

Now You’re Speaking My Language There is a quote that says “find someone who speaks your language so you will…

Congratulations! You are in the relationship that you always dreamed of whether you are married or just committed to the…

The Oxford dictionary says that submission is the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or…

In a recent video that went viral, a group of black men and women are seen debating why black men…

Okay, so to be fair, maybe comparing my seven-year marriage to slavery isn’t the best analogy….I’d say it was more…

So is it the word, or the idea of yielding power to another person what seems to get our panties in a wad? I mean we have no problem submitting to the demands of our bosses, the laws in our country (at least if we want to stay out of jail), and anyone else’s it seems, but our husbands? That’s another story.

This right here is something that we have a hard time talking about. For some women, as soon as the topic is brought up, we shut down. I mean, think about it. Your husband comes in expecting it from you, but he hasn’t even taken the trash out. Maybe he’s a lazy mama’s boy who, if he is honest with himself, is looking for a woman who will take care of him. However, he expects you to be willing and ready to give it to him whenever and where ever. What about trust? If you can’t trust him, you are definitely not going to be excited about giving it up. How can he expect you to just throw it at him when he can’t even stay on top of paying the bills? He MUST be crazy! What is this “it” that I’m referring to? Submission. Yeah, THAT word.

Divorce is something you will never forget, no matter how hard you try to, at first life is a whirlwind. There’s a lot of adjusting and a lot of worrying about what’s next for you and your child(ren). You are likely more concerned about what is the best way to try to keep your child’s life as “normal” and less effected as possible.

I wish people were able to come together to have the same level of conversation about race in America and…

It’s unconventional, to say the least, but my three dads all get along fabulously and it makes family events MUCH…

You hear it time and time again, put your spouse first. Leave to cleave, yada yada yada and we do…

I wrote the original version of this blog back in 2015. As I was transferring my blogs over to the…

After 4 kids, being with my husband for 3 years and approaching the other side of 35…  I wanna know I still got it PERIODT! Now, I’m not out here soliciting DMs, taking phone numbers or wearing next to nothing to get attention. But if and when a man walks past me and does a double take or tells me I have a beautiful smile in that flirtatious can I go further kinda way my ego gets a little boost and I be feelin’ all extra kaute!

  When AJ was born we were so in love with this little miracle God had blessed us with. We…

I was checking for him I remember the first time I saw my future husband like it was yesterday. He...

  I read this today, and I might receive a lot of backlash for it… But I’m inclined to agree…

Getting married on 4/20 was a great decision.  Not sure why but for some reason every anniversary even strangers get excited and celebrate! 

Clicking on it and skimming through the article I came across the part where she does say, “…Just making sure that we put each other first, even before the kids, as tough as that sounds.” I stopped right there, almost cursing her but not seeing what she was actually trying to say. I became a part of the generation that immediately judges before finding out all the details. I was feeling annoyed, but something told me to start from the beginning and keep reading. And I did.