You want to know the way to my heart….food! Fries are my kryptonite As a matter of fact, anything made from a potato, you name it, I eat it! When I am happy, there is ice cream. If I am sad, there is chicken. When I am mad or better yet HANGRY…the way to my heart is a happy plate.
Clean Your Plate
As a little girl, I grew up as a proud member of the “CLEAN PLATE CLUB’. That meant you ate all your food and possibly asked for seconds. In my case, I often asked for thirds. “Cleaning your plate” was a badge of honor. You got the recognition from grandparents often to the dismay of others that didn’t clean their plates. Dessert was the ultimate goal of being in the club. I remember slowly devouring each delicious drop of “Heavenly Hash” with a smile on my face feeling like I was on top of the world. My mother would often scold my grandfather for feeding me since I always used my “tell” when I was eating. I would often sing or rock loudly indicating I was eating.
My tendencies to overeat carried over well into my school-aged years. I cried in elementary school because I didn’t “fit” regular clothes. Shopping in the “husky” section brought tears to my eyes. In middle school, while my friends shopped at places like “Rave” and “Contempo Casuals”, I dressed like a boy in baggy clothes to hide my developing curvy body. The attention I craved from others, I often found in food.
Fit Mommi Challenge
Beginning this challenge has opened new doors for me. Immediately, I expected to see results. I just knew the three push-ups I did guarantee that I was going to lose ten pounds in the first week. Nope! Week two came and the number still remained the same. Was I discouraged? Absolutely! Did I keep moving? Absolutely! Upon speaking to numerous friends in their own fitness journeys, I learned that the number on the scale is not a direct reflection of the work you are doing. Nutrition is the key to losing weight. Movement is the key to losing weight. It is a symbiotic relationship. You can’t have one without the other.
Fit & 40
During the challenge, we were asked to set goals for ourselves. I designated this time to being “Fit and forty”. With my fortieth birthday approaching quickly, I decided to enter my newest decade on a healthier note. Moving more. Making healthy food choices. I will never have knees like Megan Thee Stallion, but I would like to “drop it like it’s hot” and not keep it where I left it! Deciding to be fit has led to a healthier mindset. Not only am I watching my weight, but I am also monitoring what I consume mentally. Mental health is just as important as physical. Through this challenge, I formed the community I needed. Women supporting each other and being accountable. Continuing the healthy habits I acquired during this time is a must. Thank you Mommination for this opportunity.
Mommy Contributor,
Tomeshia
July 30, 2020 2:12 pmGreat job Queen, I can definitely relate. This challenge has been a great starting point for developing healthy habits going forward and they community of Black mothers is so amazing!
Shanaye
July 30, 2020 5:16 pmThank you for the feedback! I truly am so thankful for this community
Katian
July 30, 2020 8:00 pmWow… loved reading every word. Sis the journey is not without its challenges… even for the best among us, but you have identified the deterrents and by doing so you are well on your way. I’m rooting for you.
shanaye
August 7, 2020 1:21 pmKatian, thank you so much!
Kprice9527 (Khalida)
July 30, 2020 8:34 pmWow!! I enjoyed reading this blog. I’m sorry to hear all you went through as a child in school. However, I’m glad that you never gave up and joined this challenge. I’m glad I met you (virtually). I’m proud of all your accomplishments, hard work and dedication. Trust things will pay off in due time. You will not only start to see results physically but feel them mentally. Love You😘
Miriam
July 31, 2020 2:02 pmShay,
Love your contribution. I can totally relate. And i need to make changes. Keep writing, i will definitely be reading. You have encouraged me.
Mir I am