Falling to my knees has never felt like a position of weakness…Many nights I fall on my knees to pray, I’ve started every race for over 20 years on my knees and in each instance when I get up I feel strong, empowered and confident!

In a recent video that went viral, a group of black men and women are seen debating why black men…

Okay, so to be fair, maybe comparing my seven-year marriage to slavery isn’t the best analogy….I’d say it was more…

So is it the word, or the idea of yielding power to another person what seems to get our panties in a wad? I mean we have no problem submitting to the demands of our bosses, the laws in our country (at least if we want to stay out of jail), and anyone else’s it seems, but our husbands? That’s another story.

This right here is something that we have a hard time talking about. For some women, as soon as the topic is brought up, we shut down. I mean, think about it. Your husband comes in expecting it from you, but he hasn’t even taken the trash out. Maybe he’s a lazy mama’s boy who, if he is honest with himself, is looking for a woman who will take care of him. However, he expects you to be willing and ready to give it to him whenever and where ever. What about trust? If you can’t trust him, you are definitely not going to be excited about giving it up. How can he expect you to just throw it at him when he can’t even stay on top of paying the bills? He MUST be crazy! What is this “it” that I’m referring to? Submission. Yeah, THAT word.

A few weeks back, a small viral firestorm was raised around a blog by Seth Adam Smith called “Marriage Isn’t…

Discussions dealing with submission in marriage are often heated and rife with judgment. This is because many people’s perception of...

Who wears the pants? Years ago, when Dre and I were just dating I asked him “Babe, do I try…