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Why does “mom style” get a bad rap? Why do people hear that term and think frumpy, disheveled and anything but stylish? Now I didn’t say newborn-mom style – we all know those days weren’t our best, but as a mom, my style as a woman has evolved, as it should!
So what’s so bad about a confident woman, working hard and taking care of her family? I have a full-time job, own an event planning company and blog, I cook, raise children with the help of my husband and so much more, my style has to meet me where I am and keep up!
Let’s be honest, my vacation looks were fun and all, but that’s not how I dress most days. Before anything else, I’m a mom and if you asked me to define my mom style I’d say it’s where form meets function. Even on my most demanding day as a working mom, I’d want to look cute. So when I shop, first and foremost, I’m looking for pieces that will help me achieve that without having to think too much about it. I may have outgrown miniskirts and tube tops but I’ll never outgrow style.
I wore uncomfortable shoes daily for years, even tried it with two kids under two on special occasions, it just doesn’t work. I know we can all relate to those eye-crossing painful walks to the car where you can’t wait to kick your shoes off and let out a sigh of relief! So criteria #2 for my wardrobe pieces? You guessed it – comfort. But I wouldn’t sacrifice one for the other. You’ve got to be both – I demand a lot from the pieces I invest in.
I’m a mom first. It influences everything I do, down to the way I dress. I’m loving my new Aetrex Carly sneakers from Zappos. They’ve been such a good transitional shoe as the temps fall and I feel like I’m walking on air. They come in tons of colors but my fave is the all-white because they go with everything! I shop for the family at Zappos often – from shoes, to outerwear and lots of things in between, I love the convenience of being able to shop for the whole family in one place! As a Zappos Rewards member, I got free shipping and they arrived in no time! It’s free to become a member, so be sure to take advantage! Let me know what color you decide on if you grab a pair of Carly sneakers for yourself or as a holiday gift! Talk to me about your style?
What aspect of your life drives your style? What’s your go-to mom wardrobe piece? I’ll be talking more about my Fall style this month, so stay tuned!
Avery McKinney
November 19, 2020 4:42 pmLove love the article and yes to mommies still need to be fashionably on point which you always are🥰. Smiled at the uncomfortable shoes part😁 because that was too true. Listen if I’m not wearing sneakers or Uggs then its wedges all day for me😂
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 7:55 amAww thank you so much! I try! I’ve learned over the years and figured out how to be comfortable and stylish at the same time, its a rare occasion that will have me dressed in something uncomfortable for the sake of fashion anymore.
RaShunda Williams
November 19, 2020 6:29 pmSo true must stay stylish as a Mom!!! My go to pieces are tshirts and leggings. I know i knoooowwwwww awful go to but it’s usually so comfy. I generally try to dress the leggings with a cute tshirt. Sometimes i cut the tshirt to give it some flirt. Or i find bottoms that are stylish and comfy. And pair with sneakers. As long as I’m cute and stylish and COMFY!!!
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 7:56 amNothing wrong with leggings! I love them! A stylish oversized tee or sweatshirt with some cute sneakers and accessories is good with me!
Avery McKinney
November 19, 2020 6:52 pmI forgot to say my style is leggings, oversize sweatshirts and Uggs especially with this weather…brrrrr!!!
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 7:56 amYes, yes, yes to all of those!
Velma coleman
November 19, 2020 8:37 pmI like your style and confidence. I agree with you, moms can be anything we want while still managing our mommy responsibilities, while looking and feeling great and comfortable. I am In my fifties and wish I could have been more confident and put myself out there, by doing the things I really love while making a living and being a mom. Thanks so much for sharing
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 7:59 amWe’re all just trying to do our best every day and not lose sight of ourselves and our goals. It’s hard! Being a mom is all-consuming. I often have to re-center myself and reassess my plans, goals and day to day habits because its so easy to get lost in the shuffle!
Catrice
November 20, 2020 4:46 amI’m a mom of two and I too choose comfort and multi purpose use drives my style. When it’s a special occasion I show up and show out!! My go to mom pieces are a nice thick pair of leggings and a cardigan/duster I can dress it up or down.
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 8:01 amYes! Every woman needs a good pair of thick leggings! I have a couple duster cardigans that I can dress down with sneakers or loafers and dress up with boots – love that!
Chantal
November 20, 2020 6:18 amThanks so much for sharing how you choose your wardrobe as a busy mommi! I’m a first time mom to an 8month old & redefining my style to match my life is definitely a struggle so this was very helpful👌🏾 Plus, you ALWAYS slay! Lol
Yolande Kelly
November 20, 2020 8:08 amAwww, congratulations! And – whew Chile! When my first was 8 months old I was a MESS! It definitely took time for me to find myself and my style again so kudos to you and don’t be too hard on yourself!
Shanaye Johnson
December 1, 2020 7:46 amLately I feel like I live in leggings and a loose tee. I have to remind myself from time to time, to try on my “real” pants just to make sure they still fit! Love this look. Thanks for showing us mommies how to be cute and casual